Conversation cards that embrace the bizarre
Prevents existential dread
Inspires random brilliance
Suppresses brain-rot
Reduces eye strain
Boosts in-person energy
Strengthens relationships
Hand holding a deck of cards from Are You Sitting Down? conversation card game, showcasing humorous ice breaker questions

The best adult party game for real conversation

Most party games rely on cheap shock value or tired, fill-in-the-blank clichés that get old after one round. We built this for the conversations you'll actually remember.

Whether you’re at a dive bar with strangers or a cabin retreat with old friends, these cards are the shortcut to the conversations you’ll actually remember the next day.

Kill small talk with unique questions

  • Thought-Provoking

    Sometimes the strangest questions spark the deepest conversations

  • Not Normal

    Unusual topics to bypass the mundane small talk and get to the good stuff

  • Sometimes Spicy

    Thoughtfully designed to invite honesty with a little bit of discomfort

Get the game before your next boring conversation

High quality, human written, and crafted for unforgettable game nights.

Everything else you need to know

  • A collection of 197 conversation-starting questions across 99 beautifully illustrated cards. It’s a conversation card game that's the off-beat antidote to small talk, designed to spark bizarre conversations you rarely have with friends or family.

  • Perfect for groups of 2 or more. Designed for curious minds 18 and up. Works great for intimate conversations between friends, relatives, partners or livelier discussions with larger groups.

  • Shuffle the deck, place cards face down, draw one, and answer honestly. Pass it around and let others do the same. The magic happens in the follow-up questions and absurd elaborations.

  • These isn't your typical conversation starter party game. These questions are bizarre, unconventional, and designed to bypass small talk entirely. You'll find yourself discussing things you never expected to talk about with anyone, ever.

  • A little bit, but the good kind of awkward. The questions are designed to invite honesty with just enough discomfort to make things interesting. That's when the best conversations happen.

  • No. 100% human-created. Every question, every illustration, every design choice was made by two actual people who believe in the power of in-person energy. That is the whole point of this game.